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January 11, 2016

Choosing a Rock (is making me crazy)

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There are so many decisions you have to make when building a house. Lots of them are small, quick decisions…and some of them are big ‘ol monster decisions.

Choosing rock is a big ‘ol monster decision. Rock is a big investment, and you can’t change it. I feel like exterior paint was a big decision, but the fact it is, it’s just paint. If I had decided to paint my house purple and a year later I was like “wow, that purple paint is really obnoxious”, then you just paint it again. Rock though, it is what it is. If you bomb your rock selection, that’s it. You hate it forever.

Adam and I have spent quite a bit of time looking at rock. We take pictures of things we see while we’re out and about, and collect photos online. We both like a lighter, rustic, fairly monotone look, and want rock that looks like it’s been there for a hundred years. We also both love extremely heavy mortar, which is called “German smear”.

 

 

 

 

 So after visiting a couple of stone suppliers we had three samples delivered.
limestone rock samples
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Adam and I stood there looking at them, and I started to second guess everything. The first sample (called rattlesnake chop) was too pink, the second sample (called Sisterdale top rock) was too orange/yellow, and the third sample (cream limestone) was too light, and was afraid it would look washed out against the white siding. If we were going to pick a cream stone I probably should have gone with Alabaster (brighter white) paint instead of Shoji White, that way they would stand out against each other better. And if we get cream, then the whole house will be white except for the barn wood bump out, which will look horribly out of place. Except for the cedar poles, which are super orange. Why are they so orange? And then I looked online and all the white farmhouses I saw had darker gray metal roofs, not the galvanized silver one we do. Now along with our washed out white house we have a too light roof, plus the horrid orange poles and sore thumb of random dark barn wood. Good grief, I’ve designed the ugliest house imaginable and spent all my money doing it.
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This is how my brain works, y’all. It’s like “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie”, but house ruining style.

Okay, so back to reality…my house was not ruined. I had three kinds of rock. The rattlesnake chop was too pink. Gone. The Sisterdale top rock was a bit yellow, but I’ve seen it in real life and it looks really good. The cream might look washed out, but it might not. So we had the rock guys put up samples of the Sisterdale and cream.
rock samples - building a custom home
(top half is cream limestone and bottom half is Sisterdale top rock)

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After it was up I went to go check it out, and my first thought was one of relief…they both looked great and not washed out at all. We really could’t go wrong with either.

rock samples

But we still had to choose. Adam and I stared at them for a long time, comparing them to the other things on the exterior… siding, barn wood, cedar poles, and window trim color. Then I said, “They both look great, but I have a favorite.” and he said “Me too…on the count of three lets say which one we prefer.” So he counts down and I say “top” and be says “bottom”.

Dang…we were so close to being totally in sync and getting another decision in the books. “Now what?” I asked, and he said “It’s a good thing I have a wife that likes to decorate and design things. Enjoy your decision.”

Ack…I love him and I hate him.

So I proceeded stared at it. I stared at it up close and I stared at it from far away.

picking an exterior rock

back porch beams

building a house

I stared in the sunshine and in the shade. I polled family, friends and Instagram (which was a 50% split). I stared at it for days. I looked at rock on houses in real life and houses on Houzz. I went back and forth, and finally decided to go with the bottom sample but pull out the random orange ones. I liked the way the bottom looked more rustic, but the orange ones scared me…I don’t want a polka-dotted house. Plus then I’d score some points with the hubby for choosing his favorite.

But, if we pull he orange out of the bottom sample it’s basically the top sample. And the top sample would be roughly $1,000 cheaper. That isn’t a ton of money in the scope of things and I wasn’t going to let cost make the decision for me…but still, it’s money saved.

So I chose the top sample, the cream limestone.

And I am 100%  NOT sure that I made the right decision.

cream limestone for the exterior

cream limestone pile

Either way, it goes up this week!

 

Also, on a completely unrelated note, I need you to help me settle a dispute between Adam and I.  Adam was proofreading this post and when he got the part about “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” he didn’t get the reference at all. I was like “The children’s book…you know…where one small thing snowballs into another, and another, until things are completely out of hand? It has a ton of spin-offs, like if you give a moose a muffin, or if you give a pig a pancake”. Blank stares. Man, you think you know a person….

Anyway, I was under the impression that pretty much everyone was familiar with this book. He says it’s an obscure book that no one has ever heard of.

So, did you get my “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” reference?

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  1. Katie says

    January 11, 2016 at 10:40 am

    Got the reference. We have alllll the books. Maybe it’s because they’re popular in Canada?

    Good choice on the stone.

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  2. Cornelia Winn says

    January 11, 2016 at 10:50 am

    I didn’t get the reference, but I like your choice in stone!

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  3. Julie W says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:01 am

    Totally understood your reference. I think the stone will look fab!

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  4. Diane says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:04 am

    My kids are in their middle to late 20s, and yes, I got the reference! we read all those books!

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  5. Jessica says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:09 am

    Yep, got the reference. Mom of two young kids here. Love hearing your decision process – sounds like what goes through my head for even small decisions!

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  6. Laura says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:22 am

    I think you made the right choice with the cream, because I agree that the bottom one looked almost polka dot. Also, definitely got the give a mouse a cookie reference!

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  7. Allyson says

    January 11, 2016 at 11:53 am

    I’m in my late 20’s and I totally got the reference! It’s funny you used it in this context because I feel like it’s the same phrase I use to describe ALL of my DIY projects :)

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  8. Laura Leigh Stroud says

    January 11, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    Sorry but I did not get the reference….I actually had to google it. I am in my late 40’s and I don’t have kids, that could be the reason why? But love the stone you picked and it will look fabulous !!

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  9. MaryC says

    January 11, 2016 at 12:46 pm

    I totally got the reference to Give A Mouse A Cookie. My kids are 26 and 19 and I read it to them.

    Love the stone and it looks great. My fave pics are the ones with your kids playing on the piles :)

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  10. Barbara says

    January 11, 2016 at 12:47 pm

    Got the reference! Maybe it’s because we moms read more stories to the kiddos. I love following along with your house creation, decisions, etc.

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  11. Amanda says

    January 11, 2016 at 12:55 pm

    I’m 28, and I thought that was the BEST reference! Totally got it. The limestone will look amazing! I can’t even imagine the pressure. I chose the wrong rug for our living room last year and I am so mad about it. Especially because my husband has started saying “Are you sure? Because you change your mind a lot.” Agghh!

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  12. Virginia says

    January 11, 2016 at 1:19 pm

    Who doesn’t know “if you give a mouse a cookie”? Seriously. Ha.

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  13. Amy says

    January 11, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    Absolutely got your reference ? It has been used the same way around our house when one project leads to another which is often bigger and more complicated?

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  14. Julia at Home on 129 Acres says

    January 11, 2016 at 1:31 pm

    I do not know the book, but we’re catching at least 1+ mouse a day right now, so I get the concept. I just wanted to share that I know exactly what you’re going through with your stone. I picked our stone for our fireplace with much less deliberation and planning than you… but then I agonized for three weeks about whether it was the right stone. When it finally went up, I was over the moon. So I think given all of the work you’ve done, I think you’ll be fine in the end. Interestingly, I thought I wanted the smear grout, but when our mason did a sample for me, I didn’t like it. It obscured the shadows and the edges of the stone too much for me. I love the look in photos, but it turned out not to be right for our fireplace. I’m looking forward to seeing your stone (and grout) all done!

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  15. Jan Elizabeth says

    January 11, 2016 at 1:33 pm

    I think either stone would have been a good choice, so it will be beautiful! I didn’t get the reference, strangely, as I am a bit of a children’s book fanatic . Must have missed that one – but I did get the idea!

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  16. Jessica says

    January 11, 2016 at 1:57 pm

    Of course I know that book…. but I was a preschool teacher for 5 years….. maybe my vote doesn’t count lol! Anyway I love everything about your house!!!

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  17. Janet says

    January 11, 2016 at 2:23 pm

    I live clear across the country and totally know the book.

    Rest assured that you made the right decision on the stone. They both look great so you really couldn’t go wrong. You didn’t feel strong enough about one to have a clear winner and Adam didn’t have a strong enough opinion about it because he deferred it back to you. So, then you move on to a different factor beyond how it looks, price is a good one. Saving $1000 is good. Sure, it’s a small percentage of the total cost but it’s still $1000 that you are totally going to either shell out of pay back. $1000 is a significant amount of money. Remember how long it took you to buy new dining room chairs?

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  18. Janet says

    January 11, 2016 at 2:26 pm

    Ugh! That wasn’t supposed to post twice! Please erase one. Plus, I love the German Smear style and love the name even more. I had previously never heard of it.

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  19. Sarah says

    January 11, 2016 at 3:02 pm

    Got the reference and I love the top! Can’t wait to see it!

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  20. Carol Martin says

    January 11, 2016 at 3:44 pm

    Of course I got the reference as did everyone who has become a parent within the past 10-15 years!

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  21. A. Monterey Blair says

    January 11, 2016 at 5:05 pm

    Not only got, but also loved the reference!

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  22. rachel says

    January 11, 2016 at 7:28 pm

    i loved that book growing up! and good stone choice, it will look beautiful don’t worry.

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  23. Dara says

    January 11, 2016 at 8:36 pm

    The reference made perfect sense to me! Also: Ha! Smear.

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  24. Jen Johnson says

    January 11, 2016 at 8:55 pm

    Yes, I understood the reference.

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  25. Kala M says

    January 11, 2016 at 9:59 pm

    One of my favorite books. I regret not bringing money with me on a school field trip (around 20 years ago) when we got to meet the author. I would have bought it and had her sign it. I think I’ve even used the reference myself a number of times. I think the stone will look great.

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  26. Beth says

    January 12, 2016 at 4:24 am

    Got the reference immediately.

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  27. Beth says

    January 12, 2016 at 4:24 am

    Got the reference immediately.

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  28. Mary says

    January 12, 2016 at 5:13 am

    I knew the book (but I have kids), and top is a good choice.

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  29. Elisabeth says

    January 12, 2016 at 5:45 am

    Nope, didn’t get the reference at all.

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  30. Holly M. says

    January 12, 2016 at 5:47 am

    Yeah I got the reference. When I got that book last year at my baby shower, it stressed me out to read it (at first). Ha ha!

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  31. Anonymous says

    January 12, 2016 at 6:25 am

    when we picked for our house, i had no idea how many colors there are and different ways to make it look different! and one brick that we got to decide if would look good on your whole house was crazy! live and learn….

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  32. Christine says

    January 12, 2016 at 6:44 am

    I totally got the reference! Pretty sure I read it to my younger siblings when I was a kid, and have definitely read it to my three year old! :)

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  33. Melodee says

    January 12, 2016 at 7:27 am

    I got the reference and agree with your choice of rock.

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  34. Missie says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:14 am

    We know the mouse and cookie book, as well as all of the spinoffs, in this house. Your hubby is crazy. But your place is coming together beautifully. :)

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  35. Sonja says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:21 am

    Totally got the reference!

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  36. Aimee says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:25 am

    I did not get the reference & I was glad you explained it at the end of the post. I love your choice for the bricks. I believe you’re right. The random orange bricks could look like polka dots.

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  37. Angela M. says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:29 am

    Yep, I got the reference- and I don’t have kids! I also think you chose the right stone. The more orange-y one was nice, but neutrals are so much easier to decorate around for holidays, etc. Looks great!

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  38. Carmen says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:49 am

    The books are definitely not obscure. If you give a mouse a cookie was on reading rainbow! Currently on Netflix ?
    I don’t envy your decision making. We’re fixing up an older house and my husband is the same way. He has an opinion (which is sometimes frustrating) but then ultimately leaves it to me (no pressure!). Making choices on a real life budget aren’t nearly as easy as most bloggers/tv shows make it out to be. Thanks for keeping it real!
    Also, to comment on a previous post, I live in chacos too and wouldn’t change it!

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  39. Jen says

    January 12, 2016 at 8:50 am

    Totally got the reference! We have “If You Give a Moose a Muffin”.

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  40. Tammy says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:06 am

    That man is DEPRIVED. Read him the book :) Spot on reference!

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  41. FC says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:20 am

    Why would give a mouse a cookie?

    Love the stone. Grandfather

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  42. Margaret says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:21 am

    I’ll be the middle ground for you both… although I’ve heard of the book, I’ve never actually read it, so I really didn’t get the reference exactly. I wouldn’t necessarily call it obscure.

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  43. Ali Berezin says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:50 am

    I have had that same exact conversation with someone! I was completely shocked that she had never heard of the book. Ashley, you are right, sorry Adam!

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  44. maggie browning says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:58 am

    How can he be a father of three and NOT get that reference?
    Looks AWESOME BTW!

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  45. Stephanie says

    January 12, 2016 at 10:01 am

    Sometimes there is no “perfect” decision. I think that even if you pulled out the orange stones out of the Sisterdale stone the smaller size of the blocks would not quite fit the scope of your house. The limestone gives you awesome big bricks and fit the scale of your house and roof. Plus, the stone will provide texture and the horizontal placement will allow it to stand apart from the vertical whiteness. With your porch, there is SO much you can do to add color if you want and your house will be timeless. It’s beautiful! And I always say…”If you give a moose a muffin” : )

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  46. Ashlyn says

    January 12, 2016 at 11:00 am

    Definitely got the reference, but I also have a 2-year-old…

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  47. Bethany says

    January 12, 2016 at 11:46 am

    Got the reference right away (my kids are 5 & 7). I could also relate to everything you wrote–we are deep into a remodel project on a 1986 home with wall-to-wall carpet (bathrooms and kitchen included) and dark paneling in every. single. room. The design choices feel like a house of cards…if one goes wrong, the whole vision might collapse. lol. Like you said, it’s daunting to risk making a wrong choice AND spend all your money in the process. I love the way your home is coming together, though. Simply gorgeous!

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  48. charity says

    January 12, 2016 at 1:00 pm

    I don’t even have kids and totally understood the reference.

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  49. Barbara says

    January 12, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    You chose correctly. If you don’t like the random orange stones now, you soon would ONLY see them and hate your choice. And yes I give a mouse a cookie (and then it’s 3 am and I have something much worse than a pancake) all the time. Hang in there.

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  50. Jen D. says

    January 12, 2016 at 2:25 pm

    Wise choice! They both look great and if they are both solid in the quality department, go with the most economical! I think it might be a stay-at-home parent/young child care-taker/teacher thing. I was tracking you with the analogy, but I am both (a) a former teacher, and (b) a current stay-at-home-parent. : )

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  51. Bree says

    January 12, 2016 at 2:27 pm

    First, I totally got the reference and he has got to have been living under a rock to not know that one. hahaha

    Also, the whole time you wavered between the two rocks, I was yelling “Pick #1!!!!”. It’s what all your inspiration photos look like. It’s beautiful and bonus, cheaper! I know you are in panic mode, but I think I can see it and it’s going to be beautiful! Have faith!

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  52. Emily says

    January 12, 2016 at 2:58 pm

    Totally got the reference. One of my favorite spin-offs is “If you give a mom a muffin”.
    Also, I like your choice and can’t wait to see it all up!

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  53. Kath says

    January 12, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    Hi def the cream stone also the white roof is reflective and will reduce the heat a few degrees in summer.

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  54. Mark says

    January 12, 2016 at 4:29 pm

    Totally understood your reference and agree with your choice of rock.

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  55. Tina says

    January 12, 2016 at 4:51 pm

    Know the reference and would have picked the top too!

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  56. Andrea says

    January 12, 2016 at 6:34 pm

    If you give a mouse a cookie, if you give a moose a muffin – I love those books!

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  57. Karen F. says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    Yup! Got your reference and AM so glad I’m not alone in the snowball effect of design (or life, for the matter ;)
    The house is looking gorgeous!! Great decisions.

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  58. Cindy Goins says

    January 12, 2016 at 9:50 pm

    Don’t know the book but got it. Your house is a beauty! I kinda love contrast so I was going for the bottom choice but think the top will look just as beautiful! You can’t make a bad decision with those choices. Win win!! So happy for ya’ll and am so excited to see the final results! Congraulations!

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  59. Leslie says

    January 13, 2016 at 12:00 am

    My daughter loves that book and it was a perfect reference to this post!

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  60. TucsonPatty says

    January 13, 2016 at 1:56 am

    I love those books, and understood it immediately! Adam loses on this one – you need to read the book to him now!
    I was going to tell you to mix the two choices of rock together and thought that is what you were going to say you were going to do. Now that I think about it, they aren’t the same size and that wouldn’t have worked. I love the huge blocks of rock – that is a huge heat sink for the cold sunny days – you’ll love it!

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  61. DAF says

    January 13, 2016 at 11:24 am

    42-yr-old male with 5 kids (ages 8 to 17). I got the book reference easily. What’s wrong with your husband? Has he been hiding under a cream-colored rock all these years?

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  62. Yvonne S says

    January 13, 2016 at 4:37 pm

    Totally got the reference and I use it often! Love your choice of rock!

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  63. Jen H. says

    January 13, 2016 at 6:27 pm

    I definitely got the reference & it was a good one. Those books are great and they are in every bookstore, library and school! I also think you made the right rock choice.

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  64. Kathy says

    January 14, 2016 at 12:39 am

    Yes, I got the reference.

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  65. Katie says

    January 14, 2016 at 2:16 am

    Got it. It’s a Reading Rainbow book for crying out loud!
    Its been so much fun watching the house progress and hearing your crazy thought processes along the way. Sorry you don’t feel more confident but we all know you’ll kill it in the end!

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  66. Jennifer says

    January 14, 2016 at 11:59 am

    Give a mouse a cookie! My mind works the same way! One idea leads to seventeen projects to be started before the original idea is completed. Lol, you need to read the book to Adam and then he might understand the female mind. The house is looking great.

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    • Janet says

      January 22, 2016 at 9:17 am

      LOL about the female mind! True. It’s probably also compounded if you have a creative mind. I have a good 70+ items on my to do list at all times with about 15 of them in the works at some stage or another.

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  67. Sarah says

    January 14, 2016 at 5:04 pm

    I totally understood the reference and I am 22. I love seeing your house progress. I’m sure you’ll be happy with the decision!

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  68. Karen Garman says

    January 14, 2016 at 9:58 pm

    What?!! People don’t know that book?!

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  69. Ellie says

    January 15, 2016 at 10:34 pm

    Of course I got the reference! It’s fun watching your house go up. I agree with your rock choice too!

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  70. [email protected] says

    January 15, 2016 at 11:59 pm

    Great stone choice! Love it.

    And oh, about that If You Give A Mouse A Cookie thing? Honestly, this is the first time i heard something about it, seriously!

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  71. Svenja Höfler says

    January 16, 2016 at 11:04 am

    I got the reference, and I’m from Germany haha!

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  72. Karen says

    January 18, 2016 at 2:48 pm

    I know the book.. =)
    sorry Adam, she wins !

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  73. Diva Kreszl says

    January 19, 2016 at 7:56 am

    Absolutely one of my favorite books, I gift it to people all the time!!!

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  74. Lizz says

    January 31, 2016 at 10:23 pm

    I got the reference. In fact I say the exact same thing about my brain ALL THE TIME! ???

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  75. Lesli says

    February 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    Totally got the reference! I love those books and have all of the spin offs too!

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  76. Kara says

    April 28, 2016 at 10:22 pm

    I know I’m way late to the party here….had a baby late November and got behind on reading your posts so I’m binge reading them netflix style!! But yes…understood the reference! Have the book and read it to my daughter! Back to season 2016 of domestic imperfection!

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  77. Michele says

    June 1, 2016 at 9:43 pm

    I knew exactly what you meant! I taught preschool for years, and that book was in our lesson plans every year. Adam must not be reading the right books! ;)

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  78. Becky Miller says

    November 12, 2016 at 7:51 pm

    I too am way late to the party…but, had to say I totally got it & Adam is outnumbered for sure! And I Love the stone ;)

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  79. Nancy O'Connell says

    March 13, 2017 at 1:40 pm

    I immediately got the reference to the book! And it was totally appropriate.

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  80. Stephanie says

    January 17, 2019 at 8:31 am

    You had my husband and me in tears reading this post! Y’all are basically us on every decision we’ve had to make building this house!!! I thought it was hard just choosing the tile and the countertops…then came the stone fireplace… Lordy, lordy if I had one more person tell me what they thought I wanted I was going to commit hari kari (had to look up that spelling). I feel like I’m making sense and yet no one seems to hear me. 😭 Ugh, what a nightmare!!! Hope you loved your decision because I think I’m following your lead! Thanks for the blog. Made me feel better about this daily, horribly, sickening and yet delightful experience. 😉

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  81. CS Winkler says

    May 9, 2019 at 6:26 pm

    Absolutely got the reference. And a perfect analogy it is!
    …says a Grandma of 8.

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  82. Annie says

    June 12, 2019 at 12:53 am

    Yes, I got your “Give a Mouse a Cookie” illustration. Decisions lead to other decisions which sometimes snowball into a mess 😂. We are just to this point in our build- actually choosing fireplace stone. Hoping and praying it’s easy and that my husband and I can agree!

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  83. Barb kennedy says

    August 10, 2019 at 8:27 pm

    LOVE THIS. Thank you. Duh, everybody knows If you give a mouse a cookie….thanks for the help. We are building.
    Best,
    Crazy Person

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  84. tricia says

    April 23, 2020 at 9:04 pm

    totally loved reading your post and YES…totally got If You Give a Mouse A Cookie!!!
    I laughed and laughed the first time I read it to my kiddos and said… my life is a children’s book!
    Buy it for your husband! :-)
    You soooo helped me choose my rock!

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